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  Let Affirmotive Help You With Your Sexual and Relationship Issues

Welcome to Affirmotive. Our accredited sex therapists and professional counsellors can assist couples, marriages, relationships and individuals who are experiencing sexual problems, intimacy difficulties, work or home related stress, and emotional upheaval. We welcome all sexual orientations, all gender, all sexual minority groups, all cultures, religions, and ethnicities.

Affirmotive sex therapist is a specialist counsellor for the treatments of sex addictions, hypersexuality disorder, affairs and infidelity, sexual compulsions, and sexual dysfunctions including; erectile and ejaculation difficulties, low libido, orgasm difficulty, and painful sex.

Sex therapy is a highly skilled field of counselling. Affirmotive's sexologist Heide McConkey is one of few qualified professional sex therapists, and a registered professional counsellor in Australia, with an academic training in human sexuality.

Please feel welcome to our non judgemental and strictly confidential private consultations. Our sex therapist sessions are designed to saving time and money, with you achieving your goals faster.

Taboos. Despite much media attention, sex is still a widely tabooed subject. Many people may find talking to a sex therapist rather daunting. We are here to listen without judgement.

Sexual problems are common and can occur to anyone, and at any time in life. Experiencing sexual distress does not mean you are at fault, or that your relationship, or your marriage have failed.

Neither does this mean you are stuck. You can safely discuss your sexual concerns with Affirmotive's professional sex therapist Heide. She will suggest solutions and treatment options.

Affirmotive's sex therapist clinic offers confidential solutions

  • Female Low Libido/apathy
  • Male Low Libido/apathy
  • Mismatched Libidos
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Performance Anxiety
  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Impotence
  • Lack of Intimacy
  • Low Desire
  • Painful sex
  • Vaginismus
  • Menopause
  • Orgasm Problems
  • Arousal Disorders
  • Persistent Arousal
  • Low Arousal
  • Infidelity/Polygamy
  • Affairs
  • Sex Addictions
  • Pornography Addiction
  • Sexual Compulsions
  • Fetish/Paraphilias
  • Sexual Fears
  • Sexual Anorexia
  • Sexual Aversions
  • All Sexual Orientations
  • Diverse Gender Issues
  • Transgender
  • Cross-dresser
  • Sexual Lifestyle Choices
  • Abortion Counselling
  • Sex and Chronic Illness
  • Relationship Difficulties
  • Sexual Health Counselling
  • Sexual Abuse/Assault/Rape
  • Sexual Communication
  • More Sex Therapist Clinic


      Affirmotive is a leading Sydney and Internet based Clinical Sex Therapist and Professional Counselling Private Practise in Australia. We provide clinical solutions from bedroom to boardroom, and for complex sexual relationship issues and sexual dysfunctions. We also offer specialist counselling for the treatment and relapse prevention of sexual addictions, and other sexual compulsions.

      Face to face appointments in Sydney location :: and online nationally

      • Face to face appointments are offered in our Sydney office
      • Skype face to face on-line appointments are offered nationally and internationally
      • Telephone counselling appointments are offered nationally and internationally                                                              
      • Please contact our office for assistance if you experience difficulty with setting up Skype on your computer. Skype is a legal and cost free download.

      Affirmotive's experience

      Since inception in 1998, Affirmotive has provided over 20.000 hours of effective professional counselling and clinical sex therapy.

      We look back over more than a decade of providing professional growth to sex therapy, which is reflected in the many of our client's testimonials. We would like to take this opportunity to thank our esteemed clients for their trust in us.

      In the media. Sex therapist Heide McConkey has published a multitude of articles in newspapers and magazines, covering specific and controversial topics of sexuality, sex, marriage, and relationship advise, infidelity and affairs, sex addictions, sexual fetish compulsions, and sexual anorexia.

      TV and Radio. In her career as a professional sex therapist and sex addiction specialist, Heide has particularly enjoyed the honour of featuring as an invited guest in selected media interviews, Radio broadcasts, and TV shows.

      Affirmotive's clinical areas of expertise

      • Sex Therapy
      • Sexuality Therapy
      • Sex Addiction Therapy
      • Sexual Health Counselling
      • Individual, Relationship, De-Facto, Couples, Marriage, Family Counselling
      • Professional Counselling
      • Consulting
      • Coaching
      • Conflict Resolution
      • Stress Management
      • Behaviour Therapy
      • Anger and Emotion Management
      • Personal Growth and Development
      • Leadership Coaching
      • Self Esteem
      • Communication
      • Clinical supervision for counsellors and therapists
      • Affirmotive uses proven and internationally accepted methods and guidelines in professional counselling and sex therapy.

      Affirmotive sex therapist services available

      Affirmotive's professional counselling and sex therapist services are available in Sydney, Newcastle, Central Coast, Wollongong, New South Wales (NSW), Canberra, Australian Capital Territory (ACT), Melbourne, Victoria (VIC), Brisbane, Gold Coast, Sunshine Coast, Cairns, Queensland (QLD), Adelaide, South Australia (SA), Perth, Broome, Western Australia (WA), Darwin, Alice Springs, Northern Territory (NT), Hobart, Launceston, Tasmania (TAS), and Rural Australia, and internationally in New Zealand (NZ), and elsewhere.


      Affirmotive offers services to persons over 18 years of age only. If you are under the age of 18 years, you must strictly not use Affirmotive's professional services.


        Affirmotive is a member of legal professional bodies such as the   aca_sm ap assert

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